Celebration
of Life Program
James
"Kyle" Jefferies
Reed
Park, Ellensburg, Washington
July
10, 2001
"Aloe" a poem by Kyle
"Careful," people say, "or you might get burnt.
Especially if the fire is blazing."
This is a careful tactic when raising
Doubt. Hmm...your thoughts begin to shift and turn.
"The flames lick and lap at my hand," you say,
"And I've been burnt before." Never again.
Sliding back into the sweet lapse of rain
You say, "...come again another day."
I am both the caustic and the remedy
Who but tries to tell the difference between.
I hope it's best to be patient and keen.
Would I, could I help? A small piece of me
Is all I have for you to take or leave.
We can burn or freeze; but why, if it is warmth
we
must
achieve.
Kyle Jefferies Remembered
Kyle was 23 when he died on July 5th in Egegik, Alaska. Kyle was working his sixth summer fishing for salmon in Bristol Bay. Kyle moved with his family to Ellensburg from Champaign, Illinois when he was 9, entering Lincoln Elementary School 3rd grade. He was born on March 7th, 1978 in Eugene Oregon. This past year, Kyle was a graduate assistant at Central Washington University in the English Department teaching introductory English classes. He was simultaneously completing a master's degree in English literature and was hoping to write a thesis about Kurt Vonnegut. Kyle was debating a future career in law or as a university teacher.
In the spring of 2000, Kyle graduated from CWU with a BS in English. As part of this program Kyle spent a quarter in England and traveled extensively throughout Europe. Kyle loved the outdoors, especially hiking, camping, and snowboarding. He enjoyed rock and mountain climbing, especially Mt. Stuart. This spring, Kyle snow-shoed up to Mission Ridge from Ellensburg and snowboarded down into Wenatchee.
At Ellensburg High School, Kyle was an outstanding scholar-athlete in football and wrestling, graduating in 1996. He received a scholarship to study and play football at Lewis & Clark College in Portland, Oregon. After two years the serene, outdoor beauty of the Kittitas Valley, and a missed circle of close friends, inspired him to transfer to CWU. He loved to read and write, draw, cook, and play keyboard, bass guitar, or drums with local community friends. His gentle nature and free spirit will be missed by all.
Program
Musical Selections by Kyle's Friends
Welcome
Prayer - Peter Milligan
Kyle Remembered by Steve
"Born in the USA"
Kyle Remembered by Toni
Music - "Wish You Were Here," Chris, Austin, and Pete
Poem "The Peace of Wild Things" by Wendell Berry read by Liz
Selection from Kyle's Writing read by Dave Read
Kyle Remembered by Jamie
Euphorian Space Pilots (ESP) with Kyle on organ and Chris guitar
Open Microphone
"An Indian Prayer" read by Scott Staples
Dinner and Slide Presentation
ON THE TURNING AWAY
(Slide Presentation Lyrics)
ON THE TURNING AWAY
FROM THE PALE AND DOWNTRODDEN
AND THE WORDS THEY SAY
WHICH WE WON'T UNDERSTAND
"DON'T ACCEPT THAT'S WHAT HAPPENING
IS JUST A CASE OF OTHERS SUFFERING
OR YOU'LL FIND THAT YOU'RE JOINING IN
THE TURNING AWAY"
IT'S A SIN THAT SOMEHOW
LIGHT IS CHANGING SHADOW
AND CASTING ITS SHROUD
OVER ALL WE HAVE KNOWN
UNAWARE HOW THE RANKS HAVE GROWN
DRIVEN ON BY A HEART OF STONE
WE COULD FIND THAT WE'RE ALL ALONE
IN THE DREAM OF THE PROUD
ON THE WINGS OF THE NIGHT
AS THE DAYTIME IS STIRRING
WHERE THE SPEECHLESS UNITE
IN A SILENT ACCORD
USING WORDS YOU WILL FIND ARE STRANGE
AND MESMERIZED AS THEY LIGHT THE FLAME
FEEL THE NEW WIND OF CHANGE
ON THE WINGS OF THE NIGHT
NO MORE TURNING AWAY
FROM THE WEAK AND THE WEARY
NO MORE TURNING AWAY
FROM THE COLDNESS INSIDE
JUST A WORLD THAT WE ALL MUST SHARE
IT'S NOT ENOUGH JUST TO STAND AND STARE
IS IT ONLY A DREAM THAT THERE'LL BE,
NO MORE TURNING AWAY?
PINK FLOYD